I just recently reconciled with a friend. It has been almost two years before I have finally realized that I was really sincerely sorry for what happened. It was a long story..
Realizations flowed through my mind...things which I have never thought of before...And suddenly, I found myself crying and wanting to say sorry...for the first time since it happened, I felt ashamed of myself....for allowing pride and anger to control me...
So when I finally had the courage to tell her, I apologized for everything that happened. It was never easy, but it was definitely worth it.. :) and the best part...she doesn't hold grudges, so I was instantly (and i would say sincerely) forgiven :)
